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“Marry the House, Date the Rate” — A Smart Approach to Homebuying in Today’s Market

The idea is simple: choose a home that fits your life and your budget, even if the rate isn’t ideal right now. Why? Because interest rates are temporary—but your home and the life you build in it will stick around for years to come.

Credit to Dave Ramsey for the quote: “Marry the house, date the rate.”

It’s a catchy line, but there’s serious financial wisdom behind it—especially in a market with higher interest rates.

Buy Based on Your Budget, Not Hype

Let’s be clear—you should never buy a home you can’t afford, no matter what the market is doing. Rising interest rates mean your monthly payment goes up, and yes, that may reduce how much home you can comfortably purchase.

But that doesn’t mean you should hit pause on your goals.

If you’ve run the numbers, understand your monthly payment, and are financially ready—waiting for the “perfect rate” might actually cost you more in the long run.

Here’s Why Waiting Can Backfire:

If the projected rental income can cover the mortgage and expenses, you may be able to qualify—without needing perfect credit or a large down payment.

In short: DSCR loans make it more accessible to purchase a rental property by letting the property qualify for the loan, not just you.

Every action has a reaction

It's important to remember that a change in one aspect of the market generally causes a reaction in another part. For example, if rates drop, home prices may rise.

A Home is a Long-Term Investment—Rates Are Not

When you find a home that makes sense for your lifestyle and your finances—that’s a smart buy.

Think of your interest rate like a short-term rental. If something better becomes available, you move. The house is the long-term commitment—just make sure it fits your long-term financial plan.

What Makes a Smart Purchase in This Market?

Here’s what I recommend to every client:

Speak with a lender

Understand your buying power, your budget, and available financing options. Let me connect you with a seasoned lender to discuss.

You Don’t Need to Wait—You Just Need to Be Smart

If you’re financially ready, and you find a home that fits your life and your budget, that’s not just a good emotional decision—it’s a good financial one.

Waiting for interest rates to drop might feel safer, but it could mean missing opportunities and watching prices—and competition—go up.

Marry the house. Date the rate. Just make sure the house is one you can live in and afford long-term.

Need Help Making a Smart Plan? Let’s Talk.

I help buyers make clear, confident, financially smart decisions—not just emotional ones. If you’re thinking about buying but unsure if now is the right time, let’s run the numbers and build a plan that fits your goals.

Reach out today to schedule a no-pressure homebuying strategy session.

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